Stop Asking

“Stop Asking” exemplifies many of the common questions survivors of all identities receive from others after experiencing sexual abuse. This video encourages the audience to pivot from responses of victim shaming and blaming to that of care and support for the survivor.

Roundtable Highlights

Stop Asking Roundtable

Show Notes:

Caroline Culbertson hosts Kenyora Parham, Tracy DeTomasi, and Abigail Morris in unpacking the themes and topics of the survivor experience elicited in “Stop Asking.” From delayed disclosure to sporting team dynamics to interpersonal, organizational, and systemic response, the subject matter experts provide nuances, tips, and best practices for supporting survivors. Each from their own background and professional lens, they together shed a bright light on the need to believe survivors, shift focus to the perpetrator’s behavior, and continue embarking on cultural change.

00:40 - 02:25
Victim Blaming
02:25 - 04:52
False Reporting
04:52 - 19:07
Disclosure
19:07 - 36:47
Societal and Cultural Beliefs
36:47 - 46:13
Digital Landscape
46:13 - 53:16
Retaliation Realities
53:16 - 1:03:39
Resource Gap
1:03:09 - 1:06:52
Believe Survivors
1:06:52 - 1:13:56
Sporting Environments
1:13:56 - 1:23:53
Impact
Stop Asking

Meet Our Experts

Meet the dedicated individuals supporting our mission.
Kenyora Johnson
Tracy DeTomasi
Abby Morris

Supporting Information and Resources

False allegations are rare. Sexual violence isn’t.
What We Don’t Talk About: Men and Survivorship
“Delayed Disclosure”
Cognitive Dissonance
Navigating College Tours
Know Your Rights: What is Title IX?
Know Your Rights: What is SafeSport?
What to say vs. What not to say
EROC: Campus Accountability Map + Tool
Watch the Series

Out of Bounds

It's Not Just a Ride Home
W.T.F. – Wait, That’s Fair?
Life Sentence

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